Showing posts with label success. Show all posts
Showing posts with label success. Show all posts

Friday, November 21, 2008

Slow Down!


We all lead very busy lives which can make it difficult to remain focused on our goals. With so many things to do each day, it is easy to get lost in the day to day tasks. Sadly, our dreams take a back seat.


We complicate matters ourselves by trying to focus on too many goals at the same time. We have short, medium, and long term goals in all areas of our lives including financial goals, career goals, relationship goals and so on.


Time to simplify things. Write out your current short term goal on an index card. Make it emotional, written in the present tense with exciting adjectives. This goal can be focused on one or more areas of your life, the point is to write it in a way that gets you super motivated each time you read it.


Now the next all important step, carry the goal card with you everywhere you go. Read it several times a day. It doesn't matter how busy you are, you can always find one minute or so to read your goal card. This will keep your goal in the forefront of your mind regardless of how busy your life gets.


Once you reach the goal, then and only then will you be ready to move on to the next one. This will allow you to slow down, stay focused and in action towards actually achieving your goals one at a time, instead of just wishing that you had the time to devote to them.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Follow the Leader


Do you know anyone who has already reached the goal you are working towards? It is truly amazing how much we can learn from following another person's lead.


Even if you don't know them personally, you can still learn about how they succeeded. For example there is an endless supply of self help resources, autobiographies and biographies of very successful people who have outlined their success path for us.


Be aware of the people in your life who have all the answers you are looking for, but no personal evidence of actually knowing what they are talking about. You know the people I am referring to, we all have them in our lives. Although they do mean well, take their advice with great caution. If they haven't done it themselves, what qualifies them to advise you on the matter.


Instead seek to associate and learn from those who have been there and done that with respect to your goals. You will find that this can truly save yourself a lot of time, money and unnecessary mistakes along your success journey, by simply following a leader.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Do You Keep Your Commitments?


How are you at keeping your commitments? You may wonder what keeping commitments has to do with materializing your goals, the answer is a lot. The two go hand in hand. I would go so far as to say that if you generally don't keep your commitments, you probably also struggle to reach your goals.

The reality is that reaching your goals requires keeping all of your commitments to the most important person, yourself. This is where many of us tend to fall short. We get so worried about keeping others happy, but we are OK with letting ourselves down. This is completely backwards.

Now, I am not suggesting that you should disregard your commitments to others, but I am saying that you should put just as much importance on the commitments you make to yourself as you do your commitments to others.

For many of us the solution here is to make sure that we do not over commit to others. Before you make any commitments to others make sure that you are able to keep those commitments while still reaching your personal commitments that bring you closer to achieving your goals.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Start Your Day Out Right


If you are serious and motivated about reaching your goals, it is imperative that you keep your emotions in check. The law of attraction gives us back what we put our attention, energy and focus on, so we must make sure we are feeling good and positve. A good way to do this is to make sure you start each day out right.


Gratitude is a beautiful thing which makes us feel really good. Before you get out of bed each morning, go through the top five or ten things that you are grateful for at that moment. You will begin to notice more things throughout the day that you are grateful for. You may even finally begin to truly appreciate the things that you usually take for granted.

By being grateful for the abundance that you already have in your life, you will begin to realize that you already are very successsful. The law of attraciton will then bring you more of the same, more success. This is an important step in the achievement of your goals. If you want more in life, you have to be grateful for what you have now.


We all have an abundance of people and things in our lives to be grateful for. If you have food on your table, a roof over your head, and clothes on your back, you truly are blessed. Start out each morning by going through your gratitude list. You will begin to see how doing this one simple exercise will support you in reaching all of your goals.