
Friday, November 21, 2008
Slow Down!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Follow the Leader

Friday, November 14, 2008
Limiting Beliefs Stop You From Reaching Your Goals

Thursday, November 13, 2008
Do You Belief You Can Do It?

Wednesday, November 5, 2008
The Missing Ingredient

Saturday, November 1, 2008
Visualization Can Change Your Mind

Thursday, October 30, 2008
Do You Keep Your Commitments?

The reality is that reaching your goals requires keeping all of your commitments to the most important person, yourself. This is where many of us tend to fall short. We get so worried about keeping others happy, but we are OK with letting ourselves down. This is completely backwards.
Now, I am not suggesting that you should disregard your commitments to others, but I am saying that you should put just as much importance on the commitments you make to yourself as you do your commitments to others.
For many of us the solution here is to make sure that we do not over commit to others. Before you make any commitments to others make sure that you are able to keep those commitments while still reaching your personal commitments that bring you closer to achieving your goals.
Saturday, October 25, 2008
Adversity Provides Clarity on What You Want

Thursday, October 23, 2008
How Bad do You Want It?

Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Start Your Day Out Right

Friday, October 10, 2008
Break the Cycle of Limiting Beliefs

Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Change your Beliefs to Support Your Goals
Are you struggling to reach your goals in a certain area of your life? Have you considered the possibility that you may be sabotaging your own success? We all have deeply routed limiting beliefs which can hold us back from being successful. These beliefs will actually keep us from reaching our goals.Friday, February 15, 2008
Using Quotes to help Materialize Your Goals
Inspiration and renewed energy to keep on keeping on comes from many places. Here are some notable quotes that may resonate with you. Write down your favorites and post them in places where you can see them every day. Remember, someone has already done what you want to do. It IS possible.
"Goals provide the energy source that powers our lives. One of the best ways we can get the most from the energy we have is to focus it. That is what goals can do for us: concentrate our energy"
~ Denis Waitley
"People with goals succeed because they know where they are going. It's as simple as that."
~ Earl Nightingale
"A goal properly set is halfway reached."
~ Abraham Lincoln
"Choosing a goal and sticking to it changes everything."
~Scott Reed
"Focus on your potential instead of your limitations." -
~Alan Loy McGinnis
"Instead of worrying about what people say of you, why not spend time trying to accomplish something they will admire."
~Dale Carnegie
"Life's ups and downs provide windows of opportunity to determine your values and goals. Think of using all obstacles as stepping stones to build the life you want."
~Martha Sinetar
"To achieve happiness, we should make certain that we are never without an important goal." -
~Ralph Waldo Emereson
"What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals."
~ Zig Zigler
"Picture yourself vividly as winning and that alone will contribute immeasurably to success. Great living starts with a picture, held in your imagination, of what you would like to do or be." -
~Henry Emerson Fosdick
"Please understand my friend, that where you find yourself tomorrow is a function of the positive decisions and actions you take today." - Akin A. Awolaja
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Journal your way to success
A journal is an effective tool to use in your everyday life. It can be used as both a diary to record events in your life, and as a personal development tool. It is a great place to record events in your life and your reaction to those events, kind of like the cause and effect or the actions and reactions in your life. Your emotions are a very powerful memory tool. By writing about how you felt about an event, it helps you to recall the true experience of what happened at a later time.
Your journal will also help you work through some of the negative emotions that you may be feeling. The simple act of actually acknowledging how you feel and writing about it is the first step. Once you know how you feel, you can work at figuring out why, or what happened to make you feel that way. Sometimes, we cannot identify an exact event that caused the feeling, but journaling effectively allows us to at least figure out when the negative feelings started. Now you are ready to identify how you want to feel, and do what you need to do to create that positive feeling in your life.
In order to fully benefit from your journal it is necessary to go back over it and study your progress. If you experience a similar difficult situation or feeling, you can look back and read about how you worked through it before. Your journal then becomes a chart of your personal growth, which gives you cause for celebration. After all, what is the point of making mistakes if you are not going to learn from them?
If you are new to journaling you may find it awkward at first, and you might not know what to write about. The trick is to just write anything. You can even write about the fact that you don’t have anything to write about. Over time your thoughts and feelings will begin to flow freely onto the paper, just keep with it by making it part of your day to day routine. There are no rules or guidelines stating that your daily journaling has to be a certain length, or that it even has to make any sense. Remember, it is for your eyes only, so just write about whatever comes to mind.
Over time your journal can become a useful tool in your personal development. If you use it to record what has happened, and your feelings around the event, you will find that the emotion you put into it helps to keep your memories alive. You can work through your negative emotions much easier by recording them, and their cause. It is an incredible way to chart your personal progress, and learn from the journey. A life worth living is a life worth writing about.
Track your progress and Celebrate your wins
How you feel is so tremendously important don’t you think? I mean really, when you feel good about an accomplishment it empowers you to do so much more. As a result recognizing that feeling is just as important. By recognizing the feeling I mean you need to celebrate it and by celebrating the process of that achievement you will feel better the entire time you are working towards the end result. Celebrating the process is best achieved by keeping a progress log, either in your journal or on the back of your goal card.
It really doesn't matter how big or how small the goal is that you want to materialize either, no matter what, keep track of your progress towards it and celebrate the heck out of it once you have gotten there. Take a moment and have a look at a couple of goals that have been materialized recently and how we tracked them and then celebrated them.
In January of this year I set a goal to achieve a premium membership status with ezine articles. Now from what I could figure out, that could be a relatively simple process or I could make it a difficult process. I knew that would be my choice. Like I have described in some of my past articles I chose to put focused energy into the task. I went about learning exactly what was expected of my for submitting articles that adhered to the guidelines of the platform, realizing of course, that it didn't matter whether I agreed with the guidelines or not. I wanted to be posting articles there and as a result I had to adhere to their rules. It just was fortunate that I had no issues with the guidelines by the way.
I knew that the process could take anywhere from 10 – 25 submissions and I was on a mission to get the task done in 10. I charted every success on the road. I kept a log of my articles, when they were submitted and when they were approved until I reached what I had faith was the last one that I would need for the upgrade. Every time an article was approved I put a great big check mark and the date by it. Today I celebrate being upgraded by letting my entire list of associates and customers know about it, they celebrate with me and the positive energy around the articles is astounding. Now I realize that this is a small celebration, but it is a celebration none the less and I always feel better celebrating than anything else.
Now let me tell you about a bigger goal that we are going to be celebrating at the end of this month. A couple of years ago my wife and I set a goal to work from home, together, full time and profitably. Because we applied absolute laser beam focused energy into that goal, tracked every inch of our progress towards it we will be celebrating with the bottle of Champagne that we put aside just for this occasion. We put that focused energy into several areas:
Watching and tracking our progress (celebrating every small win and step towards the goal)
Personal development
Goal setting
We carefully chose the business models we would use
Responsibility, and
Accountability
A long time ago we picked out the resort we wanted to celebrate at and we will be doing just that in a few short weeks. Living a life of design, our design is a wonderful thing.
Thursday, February 7, 2008
Using the The 80 / 20 Principle to Materialize Your Goals
The Pareto Principle states that 80% of your results will come from 20% of your efforts. What this should tell us is that, 20% of your results come from the other 80% of your efforts. Is it possible, I mean really possible that 80% of our efforts are essentially wasted? Many of us tend to focus on doing the little things, the unimportant things such as reading an email right away that has no obvious bearing on the task at hand. Often this is just a distraction from focusing on what we really want to achieve. In other words "procrastination". What this really yields us is slow results and a feeling of being overwhelmed with "things" to get done.
Let's look at how to apply the 80/20 principle to materializing your goals. If you spend 20% of your focused energy, time and effort into working towards your goals, you'll see massive results in a short period of time. That's focus. Suppose your goal is to lose some weight. You've made a commitment to eat healthier and exercise regularly. Using the 80/20 principle, you would exercise in the morning, before you start your day. You've just taken massive action towards your goals before you get bogged down in your daily routine and responsibilities. You feel powerful because you've kept your commitment, and it sets your mood for the entire day. Not only do you feel healthy but you've created more energy and mental clarity to get you through your day. Excellent!
Here's another example: You've set a goal to write that best-selling book. You know what time of day you create your best material so you schedule that as sacred "writing time". You spend a couple hours (or one or two) writing without interruption - consistently and persistently. Before you know it, you've completed your manuscript. By taking the time every day to work towards your goal, you're building confidence that you CAN materialize your goal. That begins to take on a life of it's own.
We all have "to do" lists; many of us have ones that never end, some of us have a list of lists to get done. There will always be "things" that needs to get done. Our email inboxes are always full, we just want to watch that one TV show, perhaps getting organized is all we need to do before we begin…all diversion tactics. Take some time every day, consistently and persistently, to do something that moves you closer to your goal. Before you know it, you've materialized your goal and all it really took was focused action.
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Putting focused energy into every moment
We wrote in another article about visualizing yourself having already attaining the goal. This is the whole Be Do Have mindset. When it comes to materializing your goals, you must find a way to see yourself as a success and having already accomplished and materialized your goal. You will know when you have perfected this mindset when you materialize, even a small goal because it will feel almost serendipitous to you. This will feel like it was absolutely was supposed to happen, just like it did.
You see there are times when there will be apparent, and even some not so apparent obstacles that you either put in place or that you run into. These obstacles are a fact of life but how you face them and deal with them is entirely up to you. You can sit and think that you will never be able to overcome them or you can put some intense focused energy onto them in order to easily skirt around them. You can choose to believe that you are the only person that has ever faced that challenge or obstacle or you can very quickly realize that it is what it is, simply a bump in the road and many other very successful people have already hit it and got around it.
You see whatever obstacle you believe is in front of you, there have been others that have overcome even greater challenges. It truly boils down, not to where you are now because in a split second that will be the past so where you are now is of little consequence. What is really important right now, right now and right now is how you approach life. What attitude do you possess towards your future circumstances and how you approach your life.
The ultra successful people in our world and society fully experience every moment. There are a couple of really good reasons, logical reasons for fully experiencing every moment:
- The moment you are in is the only moment in which you have power
- The past is the past, even if it just happened a split second ago
- You future depends on the choices you make right now, right now and right now
In order to live life with an abundant and prosperous future, you must live your life so that it is experienced as rich and rewarding in each and every moment. This is all about putting focused energy into each and every moment and living your life as you would and have imagined it to be. Remember a couple of things about focused energy:
Focused Energy Eliminates Lack (feeling), and
Focused Energy Achieves Results (fear)
Tuesday, February 5, 2008
Have a goal of working from home? -- the 6th common denominator for success
As we go about our day, we get asked a lot about how we materialized our goal of working from home, with our own network marketing business. There are many facets of working from home that we needed to figure out. Once those decisions are made and the choice is made there are 5, nope 6 things that you need to master and develop really well as you start to work from home.
All of the leaders in the network marketing and work at home industry will tell you that all you have to do is tap or plug into their system and you will achieve the same level of success as we have. To a degree, this is very very true. A system that is easily duplicated, simple and one that is proven is absolutely essential when working from home. After all, network marketing is a business of marketing and promoting being done, mostly, by people that have very little knowledge of marketing and promoting.
Once you have the business model that is right for you, the leadership that is going to be of the most benefit and the training and support you need to be successful there are 5, no actually 6 things that you need to develop and make your own Daily Method of Operation.
The first 5 things listed here are things that can be developed, practiced and perfected by simply putting them in place with some discipline. Realize as well that these are in no particular order, neither is of more importance than the other. They are simply the 5 things that are absolutely required and need to be done with number 6. Also realize that if number 6 is not there, just set your alarm clock and go to work tomorrow morning.
Even though number 6 is last, it is absolutely required. As a matter of fact you can be successful with just number 6 but it will be much more easily accomplished by combining all 6 together.
- You must perform Income Producing activities every day
- You must become an absolute student of Personal Development
- You must take the time to visualize and meditate on your goals every day
- You must carry an expectation of leadership -- in yourself as well as others
- You must continue to brainstorm and mastermind with the leaders
Now most business leaders will tell you that if you concentrate on these 5 things consistently and persistently then you will have no choice but become successful. This is true. However there is one common denominator amongst the successful home business owners that very few talk about after you "join" their business and that one is number 6.
- A True and Burning DESIRE!!
Friday, February 1, 2008
Be Do Have is very different from Fake it until you make it
· Be the person that you want to be
· Do the things that person would do, and
· Have the things that person would have
Up until I discovered personal development and realized that materializing your goals, achieving your burning desires and realizing the abundance in all aspects of my life was really only a mindset away, I truly thought that Be Do Have was just another way of saying:
· Fake it until you make it, or
· Keeping up with the Jones's
The harsh reality is though that there are still people that believe that they have to fake it until they make it. Actually, as much as I hated the whole idea, we truly were living that lifestyle and weren't really aware of it. When we figured out the true meaning of Be Do Have, there was a huge transformation in our lives.
There are people that are driving around in automobiles that they cannot afford, wearing suits, jewelry, leather coats and perfumes that they just are not in the financial situation to own. These are people living in their dream homes, well before they have achieved their dream. Like we were, they are faking it until they make it and simply keeping up with the Jones's.
Now I am not on a soap box here about over extending or living beyond your means. I am simply saying that there is a major difference between faking it until you're making it and mastering the Be Do Have principle.
Mastering the Be Do Have principle is the key to mirroring successful people. There is a mindset to success, we all know that. The ultra successful people in our world and society have that mindset of success. Take some time to get associated with some successful and some ultra successful people. This is much easier than it sounds, you can get to know Donald Trump, Robert Kiyosaki and T Harv Eker, just to name a couple of relatively successful people through their books. I actually prefer them in audio format. When you can have a mindset of success that mirrors the mindset of people like these you will now how to Be Do and Have just like them.
Join some associations of successful people, either locally or online. The possibilities are limitless online. No matter how you do it, in order to materialize your goals you need to realize that Be Do Have is a mindset.
Be a big thinker, be success oriented, be willing to take the actions to achieve your goals. Do the things an ultra successful person does every day, follow their Daily Method of Operation. Be Just as organized as they are, just as dedicated as they are. Have the same thought process as they do and learn to make decisions quickly and effectively. Study them, their habits. Get to know successful people in all the areas you want to change. Once you are done, and you have become the person you want to be. When you have materialized your goals then remember to share your successes and your abundance. Never forget that abundance is for everybody.
Thursday, January 31, 2008
How to Control Luck and Materialize Your Goals
We used to wonder the same thing...
especially when we were struggling in life!
It seemed everyone had it easier or had more luck than me... People we worked with were having more success, getting the deal or moving ahead of me. We couldn't figure it out, it just didn't make any sense. We wondered how do we get control over our circumstances and results.
Then we realized something that changed our lives forever!
We began to study those folks, and especially ultra successful people. In talking with these people about their success, they all shared with us that they didn't believe luck had anything to do with their success. They said that their luck, as we knew it, was a result of a series of choices that they made.
Can you believe that? We thought they were all so lucky and they didn't even believe in luck!
Rather, each one of them said they made the decision to be successful and then they took the actions necessary to materialize their goals... that's what made them successful.
We thought...yeah, but you haven't experienced the adversities and challenges that we have!
But, many of them had. The stories of what they overcame to get where they are now were amazing! One good friend of ours is actually legally blind and he has been "lucky" enough to place in the top 10 of the Olympic games in tandem cycling, create one very successful traditional business and an ultra successful online business.
Actually...it was totally inspiring. Here are some choices they made…. And oddly enough they were all choices under their control…. They were mindset choices:
- Circumstances would not get in the way of success
- No obstacles are too great
- No amount of work is to much
- Nothing anyone else says would deter them
- They would ignore the False Evidence that Appeared Real and replace that with Focused Energy and Achieve Results
What they taught us was that successful goal setters and achievers choose success.
This was a huge wake up call for us. There would be no more complaining all the time about circumstances, jobs, bosses... we would no longer feel powerless, as though this was the hand that life had dealt us.
We realized that our lack of luck was an excuse that we were using to justify why we were not living the life we wanted. We were choosing the easy way out.
Choose to take responsibility for the results in your life... no more blaming everyone and everything else. It is time to choose to be lucky!
Donald Trump talks of a great golfer that said:
The harder I work, the luckier I get
We are so thankful and grateful that we made the change in our life, because, quite frankly, we were tired of waiting for luck to work out for us.
And, life is a lot easier now than it used to be...that's for sure!
Once we got that we could create our own luck our lives totally turned around! We attracted a great business and mentors and now live a life we are excited about and have become the leaders and mentors we have always envisioned ourselves to be.
And....the best part? Anyone can create their own luck. we are living proof!
